Find your people for that one thing you love
Not another big group chat. Coteria matches you with a small group of people in your city who want to do one very specific thing on a recurring basis.
How it works
Three steps to your next group
Skip the 500-person server. You get a handful of people who actually show up.
Browse seeds
Explore The Greenhouse — a marketplace of group ideas people have planted. Board games every Wednesday? Running club at sunrise? Find something that clicks.
Take the quiz
Tell us how often you want to meet, how many people, and what makes you stop showing up. We use that to match you with groups that fit.
Join & go
Once a seed fills up, it becomes a group. You get a small crew and a plan to meet on a schedule that works. Real meetups, not another chat that goes quiet.
The problem
Existing communities don’t work
We’ve tried them all. Here’s why nothing sticks.
Groups are too big
500-person Discords and 200-person Meetups aren’t real communities. You never actually meet anyone.
Icebreakers don’t work
Generic meetups with 30 strangers doing “two truths and a lie” don’t form lasting bonds.
No shared purpose
Most “social” apps throw people together and hope. We match around one specific activity everyone actually wants to do.
One-and-done events
You go to a meetup, hit it off, and never see those people again. Real bonds need repetition — the same small crew, week after week.
Be first in your city
We’re launching in NYC soon. Drop your email and we’ll let you know when your neighborhood opens up.
Ready to find your people?
The Greenhouse is open. Browse seeds, plant your own, or take the quiz.
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